djib_extremiste, le Wednesday 13 August 2008, 6:13, dit :
I dont think you should marry a woman who incomes is higher than yours, then there wont be any hierarchy in the houze. 90 percent of woman who earn more than her spouse think that they are smarter or "better" thus should be the leader of the houze.
Some guyz have no problem being led, but if you are the kinda person i think you are, you sure aint gona like it...
Bottomline... You should marry down....
but if you have nothin or earn a very low income, then it doesnt matter if she is good woman or not, you should marry up...in that later case you deserve to be led...
You should always know where your interest is
No decent woman should marry this one..
This is scary, very scary...........
I mean, isn't sad that, despite your intelligence, education, your environment, you think like a caveman........ you feel threatened if your wifey earns a handfull of dollars more than you!!!
is your confidence that low? A husband should not "lead" the household, he should not take any decision without consulting his wife. Both of them are resposible for their marriage and their children. Picture marriage like a partnership, There is no Boss. IT'S NOT A BLOODY SHIP
On the other hand, thanks for your speaking out your mind, I am sure other cavemen think the same and won't have the courage to say it loud ..........
Still, It's wrong and pityful to think this way in this DNA age, You have some serious issues with women, you suffer from a superiority complex (you sincerly think that men are somehow clever than women), you are being delusional because men and women are equal, as simple as that......and unless you live in some sort of grotto, you are surrounded by clever sensible women, even worse, they will be your boss or the decision maker in your professional and personal life.............
It's time to surrender, Mr Caveman or get into the TimeMachine and go back to 10,000 BC